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PCT: How Katy Perry describes the desert better than I can

6/5/2022

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13%. That’s how much of the PCT we already completed: 342 miles or 550 kilometres. Tomorrow, we will be halfway done with the desert, which is hard to wrap our heads around.

As I was loitering outside Big Bear’s post office last week, a German couple asked me how it has been so far. “It has been everything,” was the most honest answer I could come up with.
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Hot N Cold

I figured, why try to find the right words to describe the desert, when Katy Perry has already summed it up so accurately?

’Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(You) You don't really want to stay, no
(You) But you don't really want to go
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down

From blistering heat to freezing cold, the desert has most definitely been a lot of yes and no. It was In-N-Out (the burger chain, that is), and up and down (looking at you, San Jacinto). We were wrong when we thought we could send our rain gear home and right when buying those microspikes. It was black from all the burnt trees and white from the snow.

We fought tens of blowdowns, briefly broke up with the trail when hitching a ride into Julian for a doctor’s visit, but kissed and made up when we were awe-struck by the Whitewater Preserve. We didn’t really want to stay another day in Idyllwild to wait out the storm, but we also didn’t really want to go. It definitely was hot and cold, yes and no, in and out, up and down.

Mental hoops

We are doing great physically. Apart from feeling tired most days and a few blisters here and there, our bodies seem to be handling the daily exercise well and have already gotten stronger. Instead, it is the mental hoops the trail is making us jump through that have been the bigger challenge so far.

Constantly being on the move felt draining at first and by trying to keep up with other hikers, we became very focused on our pace. We pushed harder than we should have until we felt burnt out and were questioning why we were even out here. I was frustrated that my legs could “only” carry me 15 miles a day and felt pressed to get up early every morning to rush to the next milestone.

There’s also quite a bit of keeping up appearances on trail. Many hikers claim to be “just cruising,” “feeling absolutely fantastic” and “loving every minute,” as they “crunch those miles.” Listening to these narratives made us feel inadequate at times for not always having a blast. Don’t get me wrong, there are definitely amazing moments, but it is also a lot of hard work and discomfort.

For the first two weeks, we were just going through the motions of thru-hiking: packing up, making miles, completing camp chores and sleeping. We were checking the same boxes over and over again without having the energy to enjoy the beauty that surrounded us. Eventually, we realised we were carrying a lot of social pressure with us on trail, while one of the main reasons for us to be here was to get away from exactly that.

So one morning, when everyone had already left by 6:30 to sprint up the mountain, we decided to slow down instead. We watched the hummingbirds drink, the gopher dig and the rattle snakes sunbathe. And it was glorious.

HYOH (hike your own hike) might be a popular hashtag, but the concept probably isn’t practised enough yet on trail. So from now on, this hike is about me. It’s about us. As much as I would love to reach Canada at the end of all of this, arriving anywhere is no longer the main goal. We’ll get to wherever we need to be, while taking it all in and enjoying our time with the people around us.

Trail magic and community

Even though we don’t have our trail family yet, we do have the pleasure of hanging out with some pretty cool people whenever we run into them.

Take Michael, who passionately told us all about the moose he photographs back in Colorado, or Jonah, Kate and Xander, who taught us the important skill of eating Oreos handsfree. And then there’s Graham, who convincingly argued that the birds are just singing about cheese burgers all the time, or Becca and Andrew, who stepped into horseshit right in front of our eyes one day and who we ended up boating with on Big Bear Lake the next.

What also helps us keep going, are the many encouragements and acts of kindness from strangers. It’s trail angels such as Francesca, who helped me plan a surprise birthday party and went out of her way to help us get the necessary medication when the nearest pharmacy was an hour away from us.

It’s the lady who brought us donuts in the parking lot and people we never even met, who left us grapefruits under the underpass or a cold soda after a harrowing 30 kilometre descent. It’s people like Mario, who spontaneously offered us a ride back to the trail, while we were just having ice cream outside a gas station. It is all the passersby that strike up a conversation and encourage us.

While Canada is still too far to even think about and thru-hiking will always be a lot of hot and cold, we are finding more and more joy in this strange hikertrash lifestyle every day.
5 Comments
Denise Hecq
6/5/2022 11:15:00 pm

Beste Lien,

ik heb de (misschien vreemde of naïeve overtuig) dat alles wat je overkomt, een reden heeft, een doel.

De PTC is niet zomaar op je 'pad' gekomen; fysiek is alles oké (met uiteraard, gezien de ongewone omstandigheden, af en toe wat begrijpelijke kwaaltjes), maar plots krijg je te maken met 'de mentale hoepels' (zoals je ze noemde) waar jullie pad door gaat.

Je hebt al vele schitterende paden belopen en al vele fysieke uitdagingen aangegaan en overwonnen, maar nu kom je ineens jezelf tegen en krijg je met een heel andere soort uitdaging te maken. Ineens besef je tenvolle wat de eigenlijke betekenis is van HYOH. Jullie zijn tot het besef gekomen wat het eigenlijke doel van deze tocht is, en dat is niet Canada.
Canada is de bekroning van een prachtige, zware prestatie, en die gaan jullie wel halen. Op jullie eigen persoonlijke manier en tempo, zonder prestatie-druk van buitenaf.

Deze tocht heeft voor iedereen een compleet andere en persoonlijke betekenis. Voor de ene is het de sportieve en fysieke uitdaging, voor de ander is het eerder mentaal (bewust of onbewust).
De vrouw die verfilmd werd in de film 'Wild', heeft zichzelf daar óók 'gevonden'.
Het komt allemaal goed.

HYOH en neem alles in je op van wat er op je pad komt.

Groetjes!

Denise

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Mail from the trail
7/5/2022 05:31:02 am

Bedankt, Denise! Permanent op pad zijn plaatst ons inderdaad voor een grotere mentale uitdaging dan eender welke section hike tot nu toe. Maar we pakken die uitdaging elke dag met meer en meer vertrouwen aan!

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Marieke
8/5/2022 12:36:17 am

Mooi echt.
Hits home.
Eerst een bewustzijn, dan een zoektocht van hoe die druk om te voldoen aan allerlei geïnternaliseerde externe verwachtingen te laten varen. En net als je denkt dat je het gevonden hebt, blijk je het weer kwijt te zijn. Een continu proces, met inherente ups en downs. Katy wist het al lang.
Veel vogel- en ratrlslangspot plezier ;).

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Rik
8/5/2022 05:37:48 am

Lien,
wij wandelen met je mee,
Weliswaar van heel ver weg over de zee.
Geniet.
🥾👍🍀🏔🏕

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Sarah
12/5/2022 02:28:11 am

Jij,
woordkunstenares!

Echt zo prachtig verwoord, zowel de vergelijking met het liedje als alles wat daarna kwam.

"We’ll get to wherever we need to be, while taking it all in and enjoying our time with the people around us."
--> een zeer accurate definitie van de zin van het leven zelf! Je bent tot aan de kern geraakt. Prachtig!

Veel zijnsvreugde nog gewenst!
Geniet er maar van!
Groetjes,
Sarah

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